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spring is for grief
03:42
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I am lost inside my soul
I tried to hide it,
but it was a spec of dust under the glass,
it only grew until one day
when you painted my nails black
and I said “it’s not a thing of the past”
now I can’t hide, it’s every day,
I’m watching my hair fall out
I am so afraid
Please try to understand
This is not vanity this is survival
This is not vanity this is fundamental
I’m gonna finish this degree
Then maybe we can leave
They can look us up they’ll have no luck
We are strong and we are free when we shake these chains
I’ve been growing out my hair and buying clothes to some day wear
I tried to hide it all these years I tried to shove it down
But there are some things you can only run from for so long
I know that now more than most
The rest of my life starts to make sense as soon as I accept it
The rest of my life starts as soon as I am free
And goddamn I am so fucking desperate
Cut these chains loose cut my body up
I will escape
And with you by my side maybe I can stand the glares
This is something I have to do
I have tried and tried to do it their way
I nearly died, four years of stasis, 23 of lies
I will never look back when I step out into the sun
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2. |
summer is for fear
05:36
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It’s a phone call that I know is coming
But it doesn’t make it any less scary
You’re telling me I shouldn’t worry
But of course I will, I will
Because I know you’re getting help
And I know that you are safe but I can’t help but worry
Because I know this isn’t really what you wanted
You said “can I get a few things”
I said “anything you need”
With a shake in my step I walked up to the desk
Said I was here to see you, used your full name
Something you never really liked
I walk in, there you are
You look okay you look okay
And I don’t fit in here, cuz I’ve got shoelaces
And the reason is not something that we like to think about
You tell me not to worry but I will, because I always do
And every nurse that comes into my work
I think they’re there to tell me that you’re gone
And every time that my phone vibrates
I think it’s someone telling me you’re gone
And I’ll get lost in my head as I do the fucking dishes
Just like fucking always no one cares
And I’ll get high so I don’t have to think
I can do this all week
And my stomach hurts every night
I just need to know you’re okay
I will look after tulip for you,
Until you return, which I need to be soon
What did you lose down in Lancaster?
Can we find it again?
What did you lose in centralia?
Can we go back there and find it?
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3. |
the isolation
03:39
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Ive thought on this for so long
You can’t run intermission for the whole show
But you did, and you will, as long as you can
And it’s not fair, because now I don’t know how to talk to people
And I am afraid of every interaction
Some violent kind of solitude, it had to happen, but not like this
Because I never learned a thing, that you didn’t want me to hear
And it took so many years for me to learn all I needed to know about myself
And no I will never resent her, but I can’t say the same for you
In isolation, I learned all I needed about those “friends”
And the “god” that was supposed answer, well I never heard a word back
And as I try to understand the memories, of clothes I wasn’t supposed to wear
Of feelings I wasn’t supposed to have, of sadness without an answer
It all starts to make sense and I learn to understand
Was it ever normal? Was I ever normal?
I used to always imagine bad things happening to me
Just for a little bit of sympathy
I needed I needed
For you
To pay attention to me
I didn’t wanna spend the night anymore
I am trying my damndest to rationalize
I want so badly to make you proud no matter what
Even if you won’t accept me Even if you try to bend me
Even if you’re responsible for some of this
I still want you to say “I love you”
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4. |
rose?
04:42
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out of line, out of touch, can't go back: golden boy.
break my heart or break your heart
dress me up like a boy i'm your "special son"
"ignore it all, this is the way you will be, you will learn to be happy."
will i ever be able to say that i want to be a girl?
i am a girl trapped in this body.
why am i like this? what purpose does it serve?
i am not complete, i'm not whole and i'm not happy.
one more semester one more week i'll never be what i want.
and this just cannot be.
let a girl love a girl let a boy love a boy.
who's hurt?
i am lost. incredibly confused
i don't want to be a boy. i don't want to be this "self"
i'm gonna dress up real pretty, i'm gonna find all the answers.
i will let you down.
i will be selfish and i'll pull myself up
i will be selfish and i'll help myself
i will be selfish and i will let you down.
please learn to love me.
your son is dead.
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5. |
power structures
03:40
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They are here to harass you, and you better respect them
They will disrespect you, and you better take it with a smile
They will mutilate you, well you probably deserved it
The media used your mugshot and your killer’s warm smile
And when you try to fight back, they just bring more guns
When you try to peacefully protest, they bring in the tear gas
Curb stomp a teenage girl for having a nervous breakdown
The KKK is still around, they just traded in their robes
For shinny badges and politician’s smiles
He feared for his life, so he took yours
You were trying to get home from work
He wanted blood
There is not a single cop, who does not contribute to the violence
Thin blue lines cover swastikas so cleanly
Another unarmed black man walking through a white neighborhood
Of course, he was upset, and how could he comply
When you barked four separate orders at him at once
This is a murder
And every GOP politician, well there’s nothing grand about them
They will fight tooth and nail to maintain their private army
We can’t pay for healthcare, but we can buy tanks for cops
Spare me the excuses.
While you kill the planet.
While you funnel 1.5 trillion dollars into a dying market
While people starve to death
All cops are bastards who maintain a bourgeois system
Let the people rot while you sit in your mansion
You better stop now or it’s gonna be too late
As everyone dies while you only get more money
No one needs a billion dollars
Much less 100 billion dollars.
How can you live with yourself
This is utter violence
This is a warning
People can only take the suffering so long.
You are not safe.
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6. |
emily's autobiography
03:44
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I know you’ll act like this isn’t happening, you’ve been doing that forever
But it’s here to stay whether you like it or not
I don’t care if you think it’s wrong you think it’s gone it’s never gonna die
And you can wait forever with all that pressure, this time I’m not giving up
All the things I hid, all the lies I told they were so you didn’t throw another pity party
But now, it’s my turn to say what I’ve needed to say
“you were wrong about me, over and over again”
And now I will stand up, for myself for once
I’m so tired of feeling put down, drowned out, never taken seriously
It’s my life it’s not right
Do you know Emily?
I’ve been writing her autobiography for four years
And it’s coming together beautifully
I tried to suffocate all these incongruent feelings
I tried to pretend to be conveniently perfect
But it felt like lies, it felt like I was dying
I couldn’t be the one you needed
The person you always dreamed I’d become
Because I have dreams of my own
I know now the person I should be
And she’s far away from here
Will she be far away from you?
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7. |
incongruent
04:24
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'm breaking my bones i'm breaking my will
if my life spirals out of control enough maybe it will come back around
a boy but a girl but a boy but a girl but a boy but a girl
but what the fuck am i?
my body isn't anything, i hate it i don't mind it
you heard it on the news today,
the gays are gonna have their way
"they're taking over the whole goddamn country"
it's just like they always say
karma's a fucking bitch
everything's gonna come undone.
my hands are shaking, i'll never understand
let me wear a pretty dress, let me be whatever i want
why do i have to be like you, won't you love me anyway?
and you say that i'm normal one, but i want to be second to none.
you break my will
will end my life?
and i will never be normal
i will never feel complete
i will never be cute or pretty
i am trapped in this aching body
there is nothing i'm empty inside.
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8. |
wrongness
03:51
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there is nothing here, there are no marks
it was the closest i cam to crying: that night
but i can't. under layers of masculinity forced upon me my whole life.
but there's a silver lining, when i finally do it. i'll be just another goddamn statistic.
did you heard dad? that i'm confused?
wrong name.
wrong clothes.
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9. |
be true.
04:52
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"and this is above all else: to thine own self, be true."
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10. |
new year's eve
04:10
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This is exactly where I wanna be
Every single night, it may be cold, I may be tired
But I’m close to you so who cares.
we are gonna celebrate every holiday you missed
I’ll make sure to make up for all of that lost time
Cuz you deserve it, you deserve it more than most
You’re the most captivating person I have ever met
And I would do anything for you
Your skin on my skin,
I want to breathe you in,
I want to be as close to you,
As I possibly can
Take the air in my lungs
Hold me as tight as you can
I hope this night will never end
And when we wake up tomorrow,
It’s gonna be a brand new year
We may have our fear
We may have our doubts
But we have each other
And that’s all I really care about
The sun is shining bright, it makes your hair look so pretty
I know it won’t be this color next week
But I know it’ll still be pretty
And I can’t wait to start another year with you
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11. |
tulip
04:10
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This is a song for lost ambitions
Trying for years
You know I can’t make it
This is a song for friends I’ve lost
You think I’d be over it by now
This is a song for names you don’t know
This is a song for things I never had
I stare at the wall
Day after day
I’ll never really know what it’s like
And you never really grow up
You just shut up and do what they want
And you never really know what you like
You just shut up and do what they say
And you never really figure out your gender
You just shut up and be how they are
And you never really know how to live
You just sit down and make a living
Well I don’t know where I fit in
I just don’t think there’s anyone for me
I think I’m lost in the middle
Just someone who was never supposed to make it this far
I think about tulip when he was hit by that car
I think about all the wrong things I’ve done
and I just don’t think there’s hope for either of us
So I’ll lay on the side of the road, and I’ll learn how to pretend to be dead
And I’ll hope one day my faking comes through, and I don’t have to look in the mirror.
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12. |
afterword (dear emily)
04:16
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Dear Emily I write to you in this way
It sort of feels cathartic, but condescending
I said you were a ghost I said that you were dead
But that’s really not quite the truth
And by next winter, will you be taking your estrogen?
Will you be living again? Far away from him
Because I know this isn’t what you wanted
And it sure as hell isn’t what you needed
And yes I really have not been truthful
About identities and the like, but I had to
Because Emily, I couldn’t let them know
That you and me was one in the same
And I can’t wait
To move out of state
Just to say
That I did it
Because when I’m
Far away
The you’ll know
And I won’t care
Because I’ve been living a lie
For as long as I have known
And there’s nothing I can do anymore
To feel alright
And I know what I’ve got to do now
But that doesn’t make it any less scary
And I know that you love me more than anyone
And “Alex and Emily” sounds better
Than anything I’ve heard in a long while
So I think maybe that’s all I really need
And I know it’s all I really want
So maybe we can just run away
Leave every obligation behind
We can panhandle a little
Just to get us by
We can hop on trains say fuck you to the man
And ride for miles and miles on end
Because when I’m with you
I’m not worried about a thing
And maybe that’s all that I need
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